I was planning on either writing about our recent trip to Stratford (quite fun, even though the plays were certainly on the depressing side!) or the massive Fringe catch-up post. However, as we were grabbing food at Union Station after the bus ride back in from Stratford, my wife said that my cousin had messaged her and said that the funeral arrangements were underway. I was very sad, but not totally surprised. Then I had a second to think about it and wondered why my cousin would be involved at all. I took another look at the message and realized that it was my other cousin, Adam, and not my step-brother who had just passed away. This was certainly a shock to me, even though he had not been taking care of himself. And also was a fairly heavy drinker. I tried to estimate his age and decided he was about 48, though when the obit came out, it turned out he was only 46!
Very very sad. I certainly wasn't close at all to him, and slightly closer to my other cousin, but in small families, you try to go to weddings and funerals, so I started looking into it. At first, I thought it would be cheaper to break the flight up and buy tickets on Porter to Chicago and then on United or Southwest from Chicago to Moline (in the Quad Cities), but I was reading things wrong and the price was completely jacked up. (My friend in Chicago tells me that this is Lollapalooza, which I had no idea was even still running, so that's probably why the prices are so high!) It ended up being cheaper to do it all on United. What I finally worked out was flying from Toronto to Chicago to Moline next Friday. The visitation and memorial service and everything will be Sat., and we'll spend time with what's left of the family. My brother has work trips that he can't get out of, so he's going to try to rearrange things so he can make most of the service and then head back to the airport to go on to his next destination!
I'll leave pretty early on Sunday, fly into Chicago, but then the Chicago to Toronto leg will be in the evening, so I'll have pretty much the whole day in Chicago. I will say that it is possible if Trump had started his latest ravings about Canada and that the wildfires are our fault and how ungrateful we are and that he is going to try to put more tariffs on our goods and bring us to our knees, I would have told them, sorry I just can't justify going down under these conditions. (And indeed, if my step-brother passes away in the next month or two, it will be an even tough decision to go down.) However, as long as I am going, I might as well do something in Chicago to make the trip worthwhile. I plan on checking out the Art Institute for a few hours and then the MCA and meet a friend for dinner. I had wondered about theatre, and while there is The Importance of Being Earnest playing, it is in Oak Park, which is a bit of a trek. And for some odd reason, Tuta is doing Crime and Punishment, but not at all on that one weekend! The most interesting was Stoppard's Leopoldstadt. However, it was in Glencoe(!), so I would have to convince my friend to go. And then I would have to stay over and leave Monday morning. If it had been in downtown Chicago and it really only involved/inconvenienced me, I probably would have done it. (My friend is a theatre buff but not quite to the same degree as me and she figured she needed her sleep more...) If I hadn't managed to see it in New York (after it didn't turn up in Toronto), then I would probably have gone ahead and done it, but I don't have to see it again. Anyway, I'll get more than enough museums in during my one day in Chicago.
Starting to work through the books I'll take on the trip, trying to prioritize books I can read and leave behind. I actually should be finished with Coupland's Microserfs by then, and I'll try to pass that along to my brother. So that's what's on the agenda for next weekend.












